{"id":2031,"date":"2014-10-02T12:59:18","date_gmt":"2014-10-02T04:59:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.YinYangBalance.asia\/blog\/?p=2031"},"modified":"2014-10-20T01:33:17","modified_gmt":"2014-10-19T17:33:17","slug":"what-hurts-me-most","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.yinyangbalance.asia\/blog\/what-hurts-me-most\/2031\/","title":{"rendered":"What hurts me most \u2026. is the complete breakup of friendship \u2026.\u6700\u75db\u5fc3\u4fc2\u2026\u898b\u5230\u8eab\u908a\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u56e0\u70ba\u7acb\u5834\u4e0d\u540c\uff0c \u5148\u53e3\u89d2\uff0c\u5f8cUnfriend\uff0c\u7e7c\u800c\u53cd\u9762\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"\n    \n    <div class='SearchByTag-popup l_google_search=1\";'  onmouseover = 'popup_mouseenter();'  onmouseout = 'popup_mouseleave();'>\n        <div class='SearchByTag-popup-top'><\/div>\n        <div class='SearchByTag-popup-content'>\n            <ul>\n                                <li ><a class=\"sbt-google-search\" href=\"http:\/\/www.google.com?cx=partner-pub-9761369273396159:6077738498&ie=UTF-8&q=1\" target=\"_blank\">Search TagX on Google<\/a><\/li>\n                                                <li ><a class=\"sbt-wp-search\" href=\"1\" target=\"_blank\">View all posts tagged as Tagx<\/a><\/li>\n                                                <li class=\"last\"> <a class=\"sbt-wiki-search\" href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/1\" target=\"_blank\">Find TagX related info in WikiPedia<\/a><\/li>\n                            <\/ul>    \n        <\/div>\n        <div class='SearchByTag-popup-bottom'><\/div>\n    <\/div>\n<script type='text\/javascript'> var l_height = 3*43+46; jQuery(document).ready(function(){ie7_css_correct();});<\/script><p style=\"text-align: left;\">A quote from facebook : (original in Chinese, English version is our own translation)\u00a0A If you agree , please re-post ( but please don&#8217;t take credit for the content )<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.yinyangbalance.asia\/blog\/?p=2026\">[\u4e2d\u6587\u7248]<\/a><\/p>\n<p>What hurts me most arises not from site clearance by the police, nor frenzy aggression of protesters, nor casualties, nor statements by Government and the occupy-central-trio in response \u2026..<\/p>\n<p>What hurts me most \u2026. is when friends take opposing sides, leading to heated arguments, cross-sword challenges, ending in complete breakup of friendship \u2026.<\/p>\n<p>I believe we have all witnessed such hurtful experience around us.<\/p>\n<p>True democracy is not restricted to one voice, one party. 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